Widow’s Home & Auto Survival Guide: What No One Told Me
When my spouse passed away, I quickly realized there were many tasks around the house and car that I’d never had to think about before. Suddenly, all those little routines he managed became my responsibility—and some were more crucial than I’d imagined. I know I’m not alone in this, so I’ve put together a checklist for fellow widows who might be navigating the same unfamiliar territory. If you have suggestions or tips, please feel free to email me. There are plenty of helpful YouTube tutorials for these tasks; in fact, YouTube has become my go-to sidekick.
Home
- Change the air filters for the HVAC system (every 2 months)
- Have the HVAC system serviced twice a year
- Change water filters (every three months)
- Clean refrigerator coils and fan
- Clean out the dryer vent
- Clear gutters of debris, especially in spring and fall
- Test and replace smoke alarm and carbon monoxide detector batteries regularly
- Clean the garbage disposal
- Check for leaks under sinks and around toilets
- Inspect windows and doors for drafts or worn weatherstripping
- Flush hot water heater once a year to remove sediment
- Check fire extinguisher pressure and expiration
Outdoors
- Sharpen lawn mower blades
- Winterize machines in cold areas
- Store batteries for boats, motorcycles, and vehicles indoors with a trickle charger if not in use for winter
- Trim trees and bushes away from the house
- Inspect fences and gates for needed repairs
Mobile Home
- Seal roof
- Check for soft spots in the floor or leaks around windows and doors
- Ensure tie-downs and skirting are secure
Car
- Check air pressure in tires (monthly)
- Check oil and water levels
- Change windshield wiper blades as needed
- Make sure registration and insurance are up to date
- Keep an emergency kit with jumper cables, flashlight, and basic tools
