John 8:35:  So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.

This is the verse my late husband and I used in the ministry we had for several years.  He was a clown and did gospel illusions and storytelling. Sadly, he passed away in October of 2019.

Creating a new life without the person who is your other half is a daunting and scary process. I couldn’t physically or mentally continue the ministry we shared, and so have begun to rebuild my life as a “single” person. Who am I now? How do I get the things done that he used to do? Suddenly, I have twice as much to do, and much of it is physically difficult for me, or I head to YouTube to learn how to do it! I’ve learned to use a lot of power tools and discovered strengths and talents I didn’t know I had over the last four years.

After a long search, I have finally found a church with an amazing Bible Study group. We are a group of mostly widows and widowers, and we have bonded. It is wonderful to have a group of people I can turn to when things are hard.

This website is a place to post some of my thoughts and writings about widowhood in the hopes that it will bring clarification and hope to others who grieve. I have added links to helpful resources, and words of encouragement.

I will keep adding as inspiration strikes! Please share this site with those who may be newly bereaved and at a loss where to start.

God Bless,

Brenda